Maxx you are so right. There is no equality between men and women as far as sexuallity goes. I think it stems for the olden days when sex was a dark subject that was not to be talked about in public. Also in those days women were taught that sex is not to be enjoyable but to be done to satisfy the. I believe that stemmed from all the men that didnt care enough to try and satisfy their women so they just said they werent supposed to enjoy it. The is a good idea but brokeback mountain didnt get a real good acceptance or did it? I was watching "Old -" the other night and the subject was swingers. Really the main character met the neighboors at a christmas party and by the end they showed all the couples singing christmas carols with men holding hands with a woman in the middle and couples grabbing other peoples butts I thought it was awsome that that lifestyle is finely making into mainstream.